Perceptions of Beauty

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  But one whose vision is impaired is unable to appreciate beauty.  For me, it has been helpful to take a step back from many of the traditional Western notions of beauty, and explore the aesthetics of other peoples.  I've found reading about West African aesthetic traditions to be particularly enlightening, and I'm anxious to have discussions about African history, philosophy, religion, and culture.  These disciplines all have an impact on perception. 

When people of African descent are divorced or estranged from all things African, there is stagnation.  I believe there is beauty in every culture and among every people.  But I have seen vast numbers of black people who have an aversion to being black, and only appreciate European concepts of beauty.  This is a slavish mentality, and one that is rooted in racism and self-loathing.  I have no objection to loving or admiring Europe, but this appreciation should not be at the expense of everything non-European. 

I seek a healthy balance, and I want to learn as much as possible about the history of my ancestors.  I want to learn about all of them, the white ones and the black ones.  I feel connected to the past, and I think that's a good thing as long as I understand it's not the most important thing.  The past does not determine my destiny, but a healthy understanding of the past can equip me to chart a better course for my future. 

Perusing Pictures on Pinterest

Today was a fairly relaxed day at work, and I made it a priority to do some writing before going to bed.  Writing seems to be the only thing that really propels me forward, and at this point in my life, it's pretty clear to me that I need to do it on a regular basis with some sense of urgency.  I'm a teacher at heart, and I don't think I can find much fulfillment in work that does not involve teaching of some sort.  Writing helps me satisfy the teaching urge because when I write I share information. 

I've decided to pursue opportunities to discuss, explore, and question contemporary black aesthetics on a regular basis through writing.  As I mentioned yesterday, I am following developments in the natural hair movement, and this has rekindled my interest in promoting self-esteem amongst members of the African Diaspora.  We tend to see ourselves with unloving eyes. 

I spend some time this evening perusing photographs on Pinterest, and this helps me see what hairstyles and fashions are popular in black circles.  This research is particularly important to me since I have not lived or worked among any significant number of black people for over three years.  I feel as if I am out of the loop.
The Pinterest boards are filled with pictures of locs, twists, and textured afros worn by women with beautiful brown skin.  This makes me happy because just a few years ago, pictures of this sort were far more difficult to find.  Our attitudes are changing, and this is a good thing. 

Natural Hair

Over the past several months I have become extremely interested in the natural hair movement that has gained so much popularity among black women.  Several years ago my wife and I enjoyed watching Chris Rock's "Good Hair," and it gave us much to think about and discuss.  Discussions about black or African hair are often fraught with tension and negativity because historically black people have been taught or conditioned to believe their hair is unattractive. 

I'm glad to see that this diseased way of thinking is becoming less common due to the natural hair movement.  This is an exciting time for black beauty and health, and I look forward to exploring the journey that many people (women in particular) have undertaken in order to embrace their natural beauty, and experience a healthier way of living.