Panic, Thoughtfulness, and Tact

I have a bunch of things I could write about tonight, but I'm having difficulty making a decision. Some topics are a little too complicated; I don't have the energy right now. Still others are not quite ripe for sharing. Writing about any of the topics could mean a long post, and one has to be in the mood for that sort of thing.

I had a number of interesting conversations today. One guy told me about having a panic attack earlier this week. Another told me I was a "very thoughtful black man" and that he hoped I didn't intend to practice law. I guess lawyers aren't supposed to be thoughtful. Anyway, the panic stricken one felt that having panic attacks indicates a lack of mental health, and seemed somewhat embarassed. I told him there was nothing to be embarassed about, and that everyone close to him understood. He is a thoughtful (i.e. introspective) person, and a lawyer ... is this a lethal combination which leads to panic attacks?

The tactful one (you know, the one who remarked that I'm black) meant no harm. I've noticed he says what he thinks, and when it doesn't sound right, he tries to explain. That usually doesn't help too much, but I appreciate the fact that he tries. He seems lonely, and expresses a great deal of enthusiasm when meeting people. A little too much maybe. I think this rubs some people the wrong way.